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- 2014 Ford Focus SE Sport Package
Greetings all!
My Focus found me like a knight in shining armor in 2016. My old car broke finally to the point of no repair. Fortunately I was working at a car dealership at the time and had no idea what I was going to do. I was not making a lot of money and just coming out of a very difficult period, lots of major life change that left me financially wiped out. I ended up with a pre-owned 2014 Focus SE with only 30K miles and one owner (a co-worker's sister in law). It seemed like a REALLY long road ahead of me and I had NO idea if I was going to be able to make every single loan payment on that car from then until the end. It did end one day, last May 2021, I realized I had finished paying off my car at a time when my mother was dying from cancer in the hospital. I had not even realized because I was so preoccupied!!
Fast forward to pretty much the 1year mark of when she became mine after 6 years of payments... the unimaginable and unforeseeable occurred and we were in a really bad head on collision. My car, suffice to say, gave her life to save mine that night. She did exactly what she was designed to do and did it well. I walked away with only burns on my arms from the air bags. After 6 years 106844k miles and countless hours together...bonding at the car wash, life transitions, change, etc our relationship had to end- FAR too soon, far sooner than I ever planned. I loved Constance. She was an amazing car despite the occasional frustrating head ache of the clutch and reprogramming and a couple other minor repairs over that time. Only one flat tire. I took really good care of my car and even though I love scenty things I NEVER EVER used ANY kind of air freshener, shampoo or otherwise to clean my interior. I never wanted her to start smelling like an old or used car and I know once you start adding that crap, away it goes. To the end, she smelled, looked and drove like brand new. My heart is absolutely broken and I know some people don't really get attached to cars as I and those in my family always have but I have honestly been grieving over this massive lost. My car was so reliable and is great shape and trying to replace her now (I got very lucky with this car) is a very stressful and seemingly hopeless task! She was maybe halfway through her life as a car, such a sad pathetic waste.
I am sitting here with a fairly surprising settlement cheque in hand and have been consumed with my next car buying options. I go back and forth about what I want, what I should do, what I realistically can afford, etc.
My boyfriend thinks I am nuts when I talk about getting another 2014 Focus. My options are limited. I am being very picky and honestly on my to-do list forever has been eventually upgrading Constance's stock radio with the 4" Sync screen and have been casually researching and shopping around for what I want for the last several months. When I started looking online I found some models with the premium sound system and test drove a 2014 Focus Titanium in the same Ruby Red I had, chrome fog lights, spoiler, sunroof and this one has the upgraded system already. It drove pretty well and was very well maintained although as expected, smelled like an older and used car compared to mine. Oh well. I assume it will be impossible to find one as pristine as mine was. Such a bummer. My only set back is that is has 84k miles. Yes, it's about 22k less than my car had... but was this car taken care of as well as mine? Is the engine in as good as shape or will it break down 3 months from now? Sigh. There's obviously no guarantee that the same thing might not have happened to my car sooner or later.
I feel like if I am having to start over I want some of the stuff I would have preferred...ike Race Red. Don't get me wrong, she was beautiful! Her Ruby Red was very bright, especially when she was all clean and shiny. But I love the boldness of the race red. I saw a Titanium with everything I want and 70miles, but it is far away in another state and blue. Obviously changing the color is not really an option that makes sense financially or on a car with a perfect factory finish, still.
So... I keep going back and forth looking at Carvana listings, not loving the idea of buying a car sight unseen before even driving it. One has 30k miles but it has the stock radio I had (boo). Another has 88k miles (yuck) though cheaper and also stock stereo. I can find one without a sunroof and consider having added with an after market one but my boyfriend has poopoo'd that idea, too. Besides I have yet to find one with everything I want and just not a sunroof.
I wish I could have someone with a license to do so buy my car when she goes up for auto auction and use her for her remaining parts. I would totally have someone take out her OEM sunroof and use that. I would use my own pristine interior parts. Whatever. Maybe I am crazy but... and I realize even if someone could make my car drive again, it wouldn't be the same car. I did find a 2017 with everything but the same front end styling, a rather above average price tag and no leather heated seats which i don't really car about anyway. It is about 4.5 hour drive from me and unfortunately still a little high mileage-wise with 70k but still way lower than where I was. But how were those miles put onto that engine? Was it driven hard? I need to talk to the dealer, they are closed today.
I like the idea of fresh start with my very first brand new car where I am the only owner (Constance was my very first car, btw, a car that I bought and paid for and was in MY name, the previous car was given to my parents and I just took over using it). I cannot tell you how great it felt, such the feeling of accomplishment to finally hold that title in my own hands last year. She very much symbolized a period of regrowth and progress for me, from at that time the time I had had and worrying about driving too far and breaking down, overheating, etc and where I am now in my life.
Anyway, I like the idea of a new car or slightly new but anytime I *think* I found something different other than a Focus, that I might actually feel excited about owning and driving it is either too far out of my price range, can't find one anywhere, is missing a key feature for me, or no longer under warranty and sold by some random car lot or too high mileage, or anything I really like scores pretty low on Consumer Reports. Than there is the practical consideration of that I have a year of school left and am just starting a new part time job which may or may not last given my school schedule, so do I *really* want or need to get into another car loan right now especially after having just finished paying one off a year ago??
I keep going back and forth and thinking I should just stick with what I had and liked. Question is, while I *was* driving an 8 year old car with 107k miles on it, to go out buy an 8 year old used car even with less miles, seems like a huge step down, because while my own was that old and stuff... she was like new when I got her and was well maintained. I could get lucky again and replace her with what I already had in a car and have another car to carry me a number more years until I am working fulltime and ready for a brand new car. OR---- I could miss the target big time and end up shopping for another car to replace a complete lemon in a couple years, months, weeks?? I would absolutely buy an extended warranty plan, whichever I get.
What would you do?? Other than the known trans/clutch issues with Focuses, which is the primary reason why my boyfriend thinks I am insane to deliberately buy another Focus, particularly a used one, I think it is a great car and fits my aesthetic.
My Focus found me like a knight in shining armor in 2016. My old car broke finally to the point of no repair. Fortunately I was working at a car dealership at the time and had no idea what I was going to do. I was not making a lot of money and just coming out of a very difficult period, lots of major life change that left me financially wiped out. I ended up with a pre-owned 2014 Focus SE with only 30K miles and one owner (a co-worker's sister in law). It seemed like a REALLY long road ahead of me and I had NO idea if I was going to be able to make every single loan payment on that car from then until the end. It did end one day, last May 2021, I realized I had finished paying off my car at a time when my mother was dying from cancer in the hospital. I had not even realized because I was so preoccupied!!
Fast forward to pretty much the 1year mark of when she became mine after 6 years of payments... the unimaginable and unforeseeable occurred and we were in a really bad head on collision. My car, suffice to say, gave her life to save mine that night. She did exactly what she was designed to do and did it well. I walked away with only burns on my arms from the air bags. After 6 years 106844k miles and countless hours together...bonding at the car wash, life transitions, change, etc our relationship had to end- FAR too soon, far sooner than I ever planned. I loved Constance. She was an amazing car despite the occasional frustrating head ache of the clutch and reprogramming and a couple other minor repairs over that time. Only one flat tire. I took really good care of my car and even though I love scenty things I NEVER EVER used ANY kind of air freshener, shampoo or otherwise to clean my interior. I never wanted her to start smelling like an old or used car and I know once you start adding that crap, away it goes. To the end, she smelled, looked and drove like brand new. My heart is absolutely broken and I know some people don't really get attached to cars as I and those in my family always have but I have honestly been grieving over this massive lost. My car was so reliable and is great shape and trying to replace her now (I got very lucky with this car) is a very stressful and seemingly hopeless task! She was maybe halfway through her life as a car, such a sad pathetic waste.
I am sitting here with a fairly surprising settlement cheque in hand and have been consumed with my next car buying options. I go back and forth about what I want, what I should do, what I realistically can afford, etc.
My boyfriend thinks I am nuts when I talk about getting another 2014 Focus. My options are limited. I am being very picky and honestly on my to-do list forever has been eventually upgrading Constance's stock radio with the 4" Sync screen and have been casually researching and shopping around for what I want for the last several months. When I started looking online I found some models with the premium sound system and test drove a 2014 Focus Titanium in the same Ruby Red I had, chrome fog lights, spoiler, sunroof and this one has the upgraded system already. It drove pretty well and was very well maintained although as expected, smelled like an older and used car compared to mine. Oh well. I assume it will be impossible to find one as pristine as mine was. Such a bummer. My only set back is that is has 84k miles. Yes, it's about 22k less than my car had... but was this car taken care of as well as mine? Is the engine in as good as shape or will it break down 3 months from now? Sigh. There's obviously no guarantee that the same thing might not have happened to my car sooner or later.
I feel like if I am having to start over I want some of the stuff I would have preferred...ike Race Red. Don't get me wrong, she was beautiful! Her Ruby Red was very bright, especially when she was all clean and shiny. But I love the boldness of the race red. I saw a Titanium with everything I want and 70miles, but it is far away in another state and blue. Obviously changing the color is not really an option that makes sense financially or on a car with a perfect factory finish, still.
So... I keep going back and forth looking at Carvana listings, not loving the idea of buying a car sight unseen before even driving it. One has 30k miles but it has the stock radio I had (boo). Another has 88k miles (yuck) though cheaper and also stock stereo. I can find one without a sunroof and consider having added with an after market one but my boyfriend has poopoo'd that idea, too. Besides I have yet to find one with everything I want and just not a sunroof.
I wish I could have someone with a license to do so buy my car when she goes up for auto auction and use her for her remaining parts. I would totally have someone take out her OEM sunroof and use that. I would use my own pristine interior parts. Whatever. Maybe I am crazy but... and I realize even if someone could make my car drive again, it wouldn't be the same car. I did find a 2017 with everything but the same front end styling, a rather above average price tag and no leather heated seats which i don't really car about anyway. It is about 4.5 hour drive from me and unfortunately still a little high mileage-wise with 70k but still way lower than where I was. But how were those miles put onto that engine? Was it driven hard? I need to talk to the dealer, they are closed today.
I like the idea of fresh start with my very first brand new car where I am the only owner (Constance was my very first car, btw, a car that I bought and paid for and was in MY name, the previous car was given to my parents and I just took over using it). I cannot tell you how great it felt, such the feeling of accomplishment to finally hold that title in my own hands last year. She very much symbolized a period of regrowth and progress for me, from at that time the time I had had and worrying about driving too far and breaking down, overheating, etc and where I am now in my life.
Anyway, I like the idea of a new car or slightly new but anytime I *think* I found something different other than a Focus, that I might actually feel excited about owning and driving it is either too far out of my price range, can't find one anywhere, is missing a key feature for me, or no longer under warranty and sold by some random car lot or too high mileage, or anything I really like scores pretty low on Consumer Reports. Than there is the practical consideration of that I have a year of school left and am just starting a new part time job which may or may not last given my school schedule, so do I *really* want or need to get into another car loan right now especially after having just finished paying one off a year ago??
I keep going back and forth and thinking I should just stick with what I had and liked. Question is, while I *was* driving an 8 year old car with 107k miles on it, to go out buy an 8 year old used car even with less miles, seems like a huge step down, because while my own was that old and stuff... she was like new when I got her and was well maintained. I could get lucky again and replace her with what I already had in a car and have another car to carry me a number more years until I am working fulltime and ready for a brand new car. OR---- I could miss the target big time and end up shopping for another car to replace a complete lemon in a couple years, months, weeks?? I would absolutely buy an extended warranty plan, whichever I get.
What would you do?? Other than the known trans/clutch issues with Focuses, which is the primary reason why my boyfriend thinks I am insane to deliberately buy another Focus, particularly a used one, I think it is a great car and fits my aesthetic.